For any human, it is always important that you have your own style; that touch that is unique to you. That is what being fashionable is all about. The good part also is that you can play around with different ideas until you get what is right for you.
When picking out a tailor, ensure the person knows how to work with a wide range of body types. That knowledge is essential when it comes to s/he dis/encouraging you regarding a particular style
As a slay queen, you can follow trends either in accordance with what the society accepts or we switch it up, adding our distinctiveness to the mix.